While you may know the general things your partner likes between the sheets, getting into more advanced positions means working out the specifics, (before getting naked.) Get clear on what positions they want more of - doggy? A sex position with your feet on the ground? - or what they’ve been thinking about trying. 'This emotional intimacy is the foundation for really hot sex in ways that will blow your mind.” Pathak, licensed psychotherapist and founder of Relationship Center of Silicon Valley, previously told Bustle. 'The best way to take your relationship to the next level is through emotional vulnerability,' Shirani M. But when it comes to nailing the most advanced sex positions, communication is the name of the game. Other times, however, you’re trying to get tossed around like a football.
Sometimes you’re in the mood for six minutes of gentle missionary.